Hey Friend,
Do you ever feel like the different parts of who you are—the roles you play, the identities you hold—are pulling you in all directions? I see you, and I’m here to tell you that those layers aren’t your burden; they’re your brilliance.
In a recent episode of Confident Women Glow, I shared how intersectionality shapes our experiences, challenges, and growth. I want to take that conversation further here and dive into how your intersections can become your greatest source of strength.
What Are Your Intersections?
Intersectionality is about recognizing that every one of us carries multiple, overlapping identities. These layers—like race, gender, socioeconomic status, and roles in life—blend to create your unique perspective and story.
For me? I’m a Black woman, a Veteran, a Veteran spouse, a Coach, an oldest daughter, a mother, and even an Aquarius. These intersections have shaped how I show up in the world and taught me to embrace my complexities with grace.
But let’s be real: navigating these layers can be challenging. Whether it’s feeling misunderstood, judged, or stretched too thin, living at the intersections requires resilience. But when you honor these layers, I believe you unlock a strength that’s uniquely yours.
Your Intersections Are Your Power
Why do your intersections matter? Let’s break it down:
- They make you relatable. Someone out there is waiting for the authentic voice that only you can bring.
- They bring depth to your story. Each layer you hold adds richness to your life experiences.
- They’re a source of self-awareness. Understanding your intersections helps you accept and love yourself, quirks and all.
I believe that we are kaleidoscopes. Each turn that life takes reveals a new layer, a new pattern. The beauty isn’t in being one-dimensional, it’s in embracing the multitudes we contain.
My Confidence Coaching Framework
If you’re ready to navigate your intersections with purpose and power, my three-pillar confidence coaching framework can help:
- Self-Acceptance/Love:
This is your foundation. Loving yourself means embracing every layer—the good, the messy, the misunderstood. It’s about rejecting the shame that others may project and standing in your truth: I am enough, as I am. - Self-Trust/Courage:
The world is known for “requiring” women to shrink, but courage is the refusal to do so. It’s what fuels your bold decisions, even when doubt creeps in. Trust yourself to show up fully, knowing that courage grows with every step forward. - Self-Expression:
This is where confidence comes alive. It’s about declaring, Here I am, unapologetically. When you share your authentic self with the world, you inspire others and create a ripple effect of empowerment.
Your Intersections in Action
Think about your own intersections. What roles and identities do you carry? How have they shaped your opportunities, challenges, and growth?
Most importantly, how can you begin embracing these layers through self-acceptance, calling up courage, and stepping into authentic self-expression?
The intersections in your life aren’t just hurdles to overcome; they’re the source of your power. When you show up fully—in all your layers, complexities, and brilliance—you not only honor yourself but also encourage others to do the same.
So, here’s my challenge for you: lean into your intersections. Explore them. Love them. Allow them to guide your journey toward confidence, courage, and authenticity.
You deserve to live fully, friend. The world needs you, in all your multitudes.
Start Your Journey Today
I know this journey isn’t always easy, but it’s absolutely worth it. I’ve created resources to help you every step of the way, from the Inner Strength Journal, to the Confident Women Glow podcast and our private membership community. Take a moment to explore them and find the tools that speak to your journey.
Remember, friend, confidence is your birthright. It’s time to claim it. You have the power to love yourself, trust yourself, and express yourself—and I’m here to cheer you on every step of the way.
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